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Spirituality in Hospice Care

Spirituality in Hospice Care

Spirituality in Hospice Care How Staff and Volunteers Can Support the Dying and Their Families Edited by Andrew Goodhead and Nigel Hartley Jessica Kingsley Publishers 2017, 240pp (pbk) ISBN: 9781785921025 £19.99   The concepts of spirituality and spiritual care are complex. This book makes a distinctive and important contribution to the growing literature in this area. It is well organised and carefully written. The chapters narrate the experience of engaging in the support of those dying and others who accompany…

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Embracing our Mortality ?

Embracing our Mortality ?

  Marion Carter Helping children and adolescents think about death, dying and bereavement Jessica Kingsley publishers 2016 £16.99 ISBN 9781785920110   Carlo Leget Art of Living, Art of Dying Jessica Kingsley publishers 2017 £14.99 ISBN   9781785922114   In the UK in recent weeks there has been a great deal of discussion about the ‘British stiff upper lip’ partly enabled by Prince William and Prince Harry talking openly about their struggles following Princess Diana’s death some 20 years ago. Their honesty…

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Easter eve

Easter eve

Glorious Collect for Easter Eve   Grant, O Lord, that as we are baptized into the death of thy blessed Son our Saviour Jesus Christ, so by continual mortifying our corrupt affections we may be buried with him; and that through the grave, and gate of death, we may pass to our joyful resurrection ; for his merits, who died, and was buried, and rose again for us, thy Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

who died?

who died?

who died?   When death comes like an iceberg between the shoulder blades, I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness? And therefore I look upon everything as a brotherhood and a sisterhood, and I look upon time as no more than an idea, and I consider eternity as another possibility, and I think of each life as a flower, as common as a field daisy,…

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Long Dark Days

Long Dark Days

fall, leaves, fall Fall, leaves, fall; die, flowers, away; Lengthen night and shorten day; Every leaf speaks bliss to me Fluttering from the autumn tree. I shall smile when wreaths of snow Blossom where the rose should grow; I shall sing when night’s decay Ushers in a drearier day. Emily Brontë  

Befriending Death

Befriending Death

MOTHER MARY CLARE SLG (1906-1988) LIVING THROUGH THE DYING Any Christian whether living in the world or in the Religious Life, active or enclosed, is being called as was St Antony of old to go down into the most frightening places of world history. If we are really trying to live this life in Christ, we are called to go down into the work! situation of today, which is rapidly be­coming divorced from God. It is only in prayer that…

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Ways into death and its narratives

Ways into death and its narratives

  Quietus: The vessel, death and the human body An exhibition by Julian Stair Winchester Cathedral Autumn 2013 FB friends will have seen some (not very good) photographs of Winchester Cathedral caused in part by a failure to take my specs on my journey ! However the main reason for the visit south was to see this exhibition and it did not disappoint. Stair tests the boundaries of subject and possibility in ceramics – he reminds us that art has always…

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Learning about Loss – Book review

Learning about Loss – Book review

The Essential Guide to Life After Bereavement Beyond Tomorrow Judy Carole Kauffmann and Mary Jordan Paperback: £12.99 Jessica Kingsley Publishers 2013, 176pp ISBN: 978-1-84905-335-8.     In pastoral ministry there are many encounters that remain in the memory of the pastor. These find their way to speak about human resilience, our encounter with pain, the occasional impossibility of resolving conflicts  and the need always to be open and honest about our needs. The death of a loved one is always…

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decline

decline

  one day a day woke up and was sky, air, light and itself. Later, evening tapped my shoulder: a reminder, a privilege, a job to do. Record, it said the elegance of the day’s decline, and the perfect curves of all that is left of a tulip.   Denise Levertov

Never Mind about Living what about dying?

Never Mind about Living what about dying?

A Sermon preached at Emmanuel College, Cambridge Chapel 18 November 2012 Joy and Woe are woven fine A clothing for the soul divine Under every grief and pine Lies a joy with silken twine   It is right it should be so Man was made for joy and woe And when this we rightly know Through the world we safely go  (William Blake)   For to me, living is Christ and dying is gain. (Philippians 1:21)   If someone was to…

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Thinking about Death on All Souls Day

Thinking about Death on All Souls Day

  Some of you may well remember that I spent a good deal of 2011 as part of a working group looking into the present law in this country regarding assisted suicide. The report, published at the beginning of this year, argued coherently (I think) that the present law is unsatisfactory and that, under certain restricted circumstances, should be changed to allow individuals the freedom of choice. I was the single dissenting voice to the report but supportive of the…

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Control

Control

‘Control’ in this context( of death)  has two distinct meanings, both equally crucial. In the first place, ‘control’, as you would expect, means priority and ability to manage, not to force, the compliance of others, to determine what others think or do. In the second, more elusive sense – a sense which, nevertheless, saves my life and which, once achieved, may induce the relinquishing of ‘control’ in the first sense — ‘control’ means that when something untoward happens, some trauma…

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Changing Expectations of Death

Changing Expectations of Death

  HERE IS SOME ADVANCE PUBLICITY ABOUT A CONFERENCE   A Cumberland Lodge residential conference Changing Expectations of Death     Friday 23rd November 17.00    Arrival, Registration and Tea 17.30    Welcome by Dr Alastair Niven, Principal, Cumberland Lodge 17.45    Changing Patterns of Death and Dying                                                                     Plenary 1 Dr George Leeson, Co-Director, Senior Research Fellow, Oxford Institute of Population Ageing             Professor Tom Kirkwood, Associate Dean for Ageing, Newcastle University   19.15    Reception in the Drawing Room followed by 19.30 Dinner…

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The Right to Die?

The Right to Die?

Sometimes life moves at such a busy pace that it’s easy to think of it as just one thing after another. I think we probably spend too little time processing things, though I was glad to be warned by a friend that too much self-introspection is not entirely healthy!   Last weekend I spent two nights in Zürich at either end of a very full public day of lectures on conversations about assisted suicide. It was the gathering of world…

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Go straight to terminal one! Further musings…

Go straight to terminal one! Further musings…

I think that some of you know that for much of last year I was involved in the Falconer Commission on assisted dying.Itwas a fascinating year and one  not without its measure of controversy.Much is made about my dissension from the main recommendations to change the law to allow  a very restricted group individuals in certain circumstances to seek assistance in ending their lives. I see from the editorial of today’s British medical Journal that there is a strong plea for…

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Who understands Death?

Who understands Death?

Following a conversation yesterday about the narratives of death and particularly our own relationship to death I turned to that extraordinary narrative by Gillian Rose that asks  us all whether  we have faced our mortality Gillian Rose  LOVES WORK Page 72 & 73 With a man in clerical orders, one may legiti­mately expect him to have faced eternity. The source of his authority will be this humility in relation to his own mortality. It should seal him from violence in love,…

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GRACE APPROACHING

GRACE APPROACHING

There is a grace approaching that we shun as much as death, it is the completion of our birth. It does not come in time, but in timelessness when the mind sinks into the heart and we remember. It is an insistent grace that draws us to the edge and beckons us surrender safe territory and enter our enormity.     (From Stephen Levine, BREAKING THE DROUGHT:     Visions of Grace, Larson, 2007).

Why I dissented from Falconer

Why I dissented from Falconer

 The Commission on Assisted Dying published its report yesterday. It has concluded that it is possible to devise a legal framework that would set out strictly defined circumstances in which terminally ill people could be assisted to die. The work was funded by Sir Terry Pratchett and Bernard Lewis, both advocates of assisted dying.  I joined the Commission against the advice of fellow clerics. I had an undecided mind, but was sympathetic to the values of freedom of choice, and…

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The Commission on Assisted Dying – more news reports

The Commission on Assisted Dying – more news reports

‘Why I Rejected the Report Calling for Assisted Suicide in the UK One of the commissioners who worked on a report into assisted dying has rejected its conclusions. REUTERS/Stefan Wermuth A report by the Commission on Assisted Dying which claimed there is a “strong case” for allowing assisted suicide was “not in the position to make sweeping suggestions for a change in the law”, claims the sole commissioner to reject the conclusions. “I started off with some sympathy for a…

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